Saturday, November 15, 2014

My 11 Year Odyssey

On Thanksgiving day, eleven years ago, I decided to play in my first, and only, Turkey Bowl.  It was a flag football game involving other 40+ males trying to relive their youth.  On that fateful day, I broke my ankle which began the downward spiral of weight gain.

The end of the year is not an easy time for weight management.  It is particularly hard when you are on crutches.  Did you know the average male adds 3.4% of his body weight each year (5.2% for women)?  Most of this is gained around the holidays.

After I recovered from the ankle break, I tried to start running again.  I never was able to return to my marathon years. Before I knew it, I was in the position of not being able to lose weight because I couldn't run, and I couldn't run until I lost weight.  Or, so I thought.  At that time in my life, I thought I could outrun my bad diet.  I didn't realize then that weight loss is 80% diet.

A couple years later, I had a surgical procedure which was also around Thanksgiving.  I don't know how much I weighed at the time, but I was getting bigger.  I tried to stay active, but it didn't work.  I was still gaining weight.  By the end of 2010, I was over 300 pounds.  That's when my wife and I decided to join weight watchers.  I was shocked when I stepped on the scale.  I had no idea that is what I weighed,  I had convinced myself that I wasn't that big.


I was very successful with weight watchers for 5 months.  I lost 40 pounds.  By the end of the year, I had gained a few pounds back, but I thought I was in control.  I was wrong.  Half way through 2012, I had regained 26 pounds.  Again, I convinced myself that I wasn't that big.

It wasn't until the summer of 2013, after looking at vacation pictures that I realized I was a big dude.  People just aren't nearly as big as me.  Heck, I was twice as big as my adult kids.   It was then that I started to take control of my life.



I have finally returned to the same weight that I was 11 years ago.  But, I am still overweight.  The last 16 months of conscience eating has been a slow process.  I have lost over 50 pounds.  This calendar year, I have lost 20. That's only 2 pounds a month.  See how 2 pounds a month adds up?


During this time, I have read at least 6 books on diet.  I lean now towards a high protein, higher fat, low carb diet.  We all know bread is bad, I just never knew how bad these sugars were for your body.  Sometimes I falter, which is why it has taken me 16 months to lose 50 pounds.  There is no magic pill.  There is only perseverance.  Keep pushing forward.  It is a lifestyle change. Through this process, I have realized 2 fundamental truths for weight loss success:  1) log food intake; 2) drink lots of water.

When you log food, log every thing.  This is what holds you accountable to yourself.  There are many apps for logging food.  I think Weight Watchers is the best.  But, you have to be a member to use it.  Value Diary uses WW points if you are using WW.   I am currently using MyFitnessPal.  Livestrong is also good.

For water intake, The new wave of thinking is to take 1/2 your body weight and drink that many ounces per day.  For us big folks, that's a lot of water.  I don't know if there is any scientific evidence that water is better than any other non- caloric beverage. When you drink that much water, you just don't feel like eating.  My greatest success has come when I am drinking a lot of water.